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	<title>Comments on: Heeere Comes the. . . Single Wedding Guest?</title>
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		<title>By: Ryan</title>
		<link>http://onely.org/2009/07/09/here-comes-the-single-wedding-guest/comment-page-1/#comment-11885</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ryan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Dec 2010 16:37:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[thanks for information wedding.I like your blog]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks for information wedding.I like your blog</p>
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		<title>By: You Don&#8217;t Know Onely &#171; Onely: Single and Happy</title>
		<link>http://onely.org/2009/07/09/here-comes-the-single-wedding-guest/comment-page-1/#comment-10542</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[You Don&#8217;t Know Onely &#171; Onely: Single and Happy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Aug 2010 03:47:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] REALITY: Actually we just hate that marriage is overprivileged in our laws and culture. [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] REALITY: Actually we just hate that marriage is overprivileged in our laws and culture. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Onely</title>
		<link>http://onely.org/2009/07/09/here-comes-the-single-wedding-guest/comment-page-1/#comment-4394</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Onely]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 01:35:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[WTF, yet another company linked to our blog without bothering to READ Onely first, so they would realize we hate them. 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>WTF, yet another company linked to our blog without bothering to READ Onely first, so they would realize we hate them.<br />
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		<title>By: Wedding Planning Books and Info</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Wedding Planning Books and Info]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 22:10:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;strong&gt;Wedding Planning Books and Info...&lt;/strong&gt;

Everyone thought our reception tables were so beautiful with all the beach themed wedding accessories I had found for them. The place I shopped not only had the beach wedding album I wanted, but so many more accessories to go with it. The place card ho...]]></description>
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<p>Everyone thought our reception tables were so beautiful with all the beach themed wedding accessories I had found for them. The place I shopped not only had the beach wedding album I wanted, but so many more accessories to go with it. The place card ho&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: autonomous</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 23:49:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sorry for the late check in- was helping to prepare for trial and swamped. I&#039;ve so enjoyed reading the comments by everyone- and found that the opportunity to vent and read feedback has taken the sting out of the initial bite. While still no invitations, I&#039;ve since learned that children are not included and that there are others they&#039;ve had to ask to limit attendance. It&#039;s a small facility and one side of the family is very extended (along the lines of Trauma Queen&#039;s comment- they&#039;re Persian)

So, here&#039;s what I&#039;ve determined- it&#039;s going to be a fabulous vacation with my best friend in wine country, wherein we&#039;ll attend a number of wedding festivities, and will be spending time with a lot of great people besides. I don&#039;t want to bother anymore about whether I felt snubbed or not- it was singlism to be sure, but I&#039;ve considered whether or not it was such an offense that I would sabotage a friendship just to be correct on principal.  What it says to me ultimately is what we already know- people are really generally only concerned with immediates and don&#039;t or can&#039;t consider the larger picture as includes everyone. Thinking little differently here- perhaps because of a 13-year friendship, my friend hoped he could count on my understanding that his wedding was getting out of control- at 40, it&#039;s no longer the parents of the bride who are solely paying- It&#039;s the couple themselves. oi.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry for the late check in- was helping to prepare for trial and swamped. I&#8217;ve so enjoyed reading the comments by everyone- and found that the opportunity to vent and read feedback has taken the sting out of the initial bite. While still no invitations, I&#8217;ve since learned that children are not included and that there are others they&#8217;ve had to ask to limit attendance. It&#8217;s a small facility and one side of the family is very extended (along the lines of Trauma Queen&#8217;s comment- they&#8217;re Persian)</p>
<p>So, here&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve determined- it&#8217;s going to be a fabulous vacation with my best friend in wine country, wherein we&#8217;ll attend a number of wedding festivities, and will be spending time with a lot of great people besides. I don&#8217;t want to bother anymore about whether I felt snubbed or not- it was singlism to be sure, but I&#8217;ve considered whether or not it was such an offense that I would sabotage a friendship just to be correct on principal.  What it says to me ultimately is what we already know- people are really generally only concerned with immediates and don&#8217;t or can&#8217;t consider the larger picture as includes everyone. Thinking little differently here- perhaps because of a 13-year friendship, my friend hoped he could count on my understanding that his wedding was getting out of control- at 40, it&#8217;s no longer the parents of the bride who are solely paying- It&#8217;s the couple themselves. oi.</p>
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